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一 | CAIRO -- CAIRO (AP) — Six months of war between Sudan’s military and a powerful paramilitary group has killed up to 9,000 people and created “one of the worst humanitarian nightmares in recent history,” the United Nations humanitarian chief said Sunday.Sudan has been engulfed in chaos since mid-April, when simmering tensions between military chief Gen. Abdel-Fattah Burhan and the commander of the paramilitary Rapid Support Forces, Gen. Mohamed Hamdan Dagalo, exploded into open warfare.“For six months, civilians ... have known no respite from bloodshed and terror,” U.N. Undersecretary-General Martin Griffiths said in a statement marking the six-month anniversary of the war. “Horrific reports of rape and sexual violence continue to emerge.”The fighting initially centered in Khartoum, but quickly spread to other areas across the east African nation, including the already conflict-wrecked western Darfur region.Griffiths said the fighting reportedly killed up to 9,000 and forced millions of people out of their homes, either to safer areas inside Sudan or in neighboring countries.He said the conflict led to “communities torn apart. Vulnerable people with no access to life-saving aid. Mounting humanitarian needs in the neighboring countries where millions have fled.”According to the U.N. migration agency, more than 4.5 million people were displaced inside Sudan, while over 1.2 million others sought refuge in neighboring countries. The fighting also left 25 million people — more than half of the country’s population — in need of humanitarian aid, Griffiths said.Adding to the calamity, a cholera outbreak was reported in the capital and other areas in the country, with more than 1,000 suspected cases detected in Khartoum and the provinces of Kordofan and Qadarif, he said.Since the breakout of the war, the Greater Khartoum area — the cities of Khartoum, Omdurman and Khartoum North — has become a battleground, with airstrikes and shelling taking place in densely populated areas.There were reports of rape and gang rape in Khartoum and Darfur, mostly blamed on the Rapid Support Forces. The RSF and its allied Arab militias were also accused by the U.N. and international rights groups of atrocities in Darfur, which was the scene of a genocidal campaign in the early 2000s.The recent atrocities in Darfur prompted the International Criminal Court’s prosecutor to declare in July that he was investigating alleged war crimes and crimes against humanity in the latest fighting in the region.。

今夏最"离谱"的 NBA 场外新闻，可能要数这一条：火箭前锋塔里·伊森，向法院申请家暴限制令，起诉自己的前女友。据 TMZ 拿到的法庭文件，32岁的前女友玛丽莲·罗德里格斯被伊森指控：一次送对方母亲回家后两人争执，玛丽莲竟"握紧拳头反复殴打他的面部"；伊森离开后，她又擅自闯入他租住的民宿，把他所有名牌衣物翻出来、倒上液态漂白剂全部毁掉，损失约 9.2万美元；更瘆人的是，她的朋友还打电话传话，扬言要"打断他的双腿""杀了他"。伊森无奈申请限制令，要求对方不得靠近自己、住所、训练场、座驾，甚至覆盖火箭在加州参赛的所有球馆。

二 | 消息一出，评论区全是"什么鬼"。也难怪——一个两米出头、能在 NBA 拼抢的硬汉中锋/锋线，被前女友按着头打、被泼漂白剂、还收到死亡威胁，画面实在太违和。

三 | 可如果只当笑话看，就漏掉了更严肃的内核：NBA 球员遭家暴，真的是个例吗？答案很明确：不是个例，只是"少数派"。把过往新闻翻一翻，被伴侣动手的 NBA 球员，名单比想象中长：厄尔·沃特森（爵士）：妻子、演员詹妮弗·弗里曼因一条短信疑他出轨，咬破他手腕和胸口，还抄起电熨斗砸过来，沃特森闪开才没重伤；贾森·基德前妻朱玛娜：离婚文件里写明，她常在家中拿东西砸他，一位驻家采访的记者直言"完全相信"；德文·哈姆（前活塞）：邻居报警后警方到场，发现他妻子拎着酒瓶站在一旁，哈姆被打得满头流血、不敢吭声；艾尔·杰弗森：被媒体点名为"另一半的出气筒"；查理·贝尔（勇士）：被妻子当着孩子面用美工刀划伤。

四 | 所以，伊森绝非孤例。只是横向比，"球员殴妻"的丑闻显然更多，男性当受害者始终是少数且更沉默的一群。为什么五大三粗的壮汉被家暴，会让外界匪夷所思？第一，是刻板印象的暴击。我们默认"块头大=不可能被欺负"，但家暴的本质从来不是"谁拳头硬"。它更多是控制、情绪爆发和权力碾压——对方抄起熨斗、美工刀、酒瓶，或是像伊森案里趁你转身的瞬间动手、再泼化学液体，体格优势在那一刻直接归零。NBA 球员的肌肉，挡得住防守球员，挡不住枕边人突如其来的拳头。

五 | 第二，是男性受害者的集体沉默。社会文化里，"男人该忍""报警丢面子"的潜规则，让大量男性家暴受害者选择咽下委屈。伊森没有硬扛、而是直接走法律程序申请限制令，在同类案例里反而是少见且值得肯定的清醒操作——用法律止损，比"男子汉不能吃亏"的逞强聪明得多。第三，是被娱乐化消费的荒诞感。网友爱调侃"最委屈 NBA 壮汉"，但家暴就是家暴，无论加害者和受害者是什么性别。它不因受害者是百万富翁、是职业运动员，就自动降级成搞笑段子。伊森的 9.2 万美元衣物损失背后，是真实的恐惧——他连"出现在同一座球馆"都要写进禁令。伊森这桩"反向家暴"闹剧，撕开了一个常被忽略的真相——家暴没有性别滤镜。体格可以碾压球场，却挡不住亲密关系里的暴力；"五大三粗"从不是免于受害的护身符。